Home is where the heart is.....

It has been a crazy week so far! I really haven't had time blog about his 2nd surgery! We stayed busy at the hospital most of the time. Therapy... therapy.. therapy! Physical therapy had him a couple times a day and so did occupational therapy. We did get rest sometime in between but then the famous "toy room" was the happening place. They also had art therapy and music therapy. Brennan did paint alot. Sue, our art therapy teacher told him to paint how he felt. He painted a painting almost every morning. I think it helped him. I usually had 45 minutes to myself thanks to his Child Life buddy. I usually would take a walk around the hosptial or walk to other buildings outside to get fresh air. I would always get my coffee too!! :) We were on a pretty good schedule between meds, IV flushings, doctors coming in and therapy. In between we snuck in a movie to watch. The Friday Chris and Ty came up we were working Brennan hard to meet his requirements to go home on Sunday. We came back up from the toy room and the doctor was in and said even though Brennan had not met all the requirements, they felt that it was best he would be able to accomplish them at home. We heard those sweet words.. Brennan would be released one day early! I think I did do a happy dance! That Saturday morning I couldn't be happier to get out of the hosptial room and into my car to go home. We will miss seeing our nurses we had on a daily and nightly basis. Brennan got attached to a couple of them but there was one, Danielle, our night nurse he just loved. She was just amazing with him! His heart was broken when it was her last night to work. He made her a picture to hang in her locker. Before we left Chicago, I did get my Dunkin Donuts (thanks Nan for the gift card)! The ride home was long. Just trying to keep Brennan comfortable was the key. We made it home and got Brennan home and made him a comfy spot on the couch. Chris went and got his meds filled and let me tell you it is a chore keeping up with them!!! We have a chartnwe have been keeping to keep up with the times!;He has been getting up more and more off the couch but when he hurts, he is right back on the couch. We started our therapies back up at the hospital. Trying to jump back into things! He has restrictions when he does go back to school and at home. Monday we had his dressings taken off. I felt bad because the poor kid screamed from the tape being taken off his head.  He is missing some hair on his head but it will grow back. He has spiked a low grade fever and we have been watching that. The doctor has ordered antibiotics and wants us to put Neosporin  on his incisions because he does not like the redness on the bottom of his big incision. Also blood work is ordered. Thanks to everyone that has kept Brennan in thoughts and prayers. Also for the text messages and phone calls. We appreciate it very much!

2nd surgery and the things you learn......

Nov 2nd... the new chapter began. Surgery was long...way longer than the first. Dr. Frim came out and talked to us afterwards. During the procedure he explained that there was more work than he anticipated. He did look exhausted when he was talking to us. He also explained that there was some obsticles in his head with different veins he was trying to avoid. He did bleed alot and required a blood transfusion. I think my heart stopped for a few after he said that. It was a good thing we signed for him to get blood if he needed it. He walked us up to the ICU where Brennan was. Seeing him for the first time was a relief but at the same time my heart broke seeing him the way he was. Lot more tubes and wires coming out of him than the last time. He was more swollen in the face which was to be expected. We did have a rough first night. Having a catheter in is not fun and for a child it makes it 10 times worse. He was agitated and by 2 am he was in pain not only from his head but his cath. They decided to take it out. He was better after that and finally settled down about 3:45. In between him feeling like poo.. we had the helicopter pad by us and they kept coming in and out. Just being on the ICU floor freaked me out. None of the rooms had bathrooms in them so we had to walk down the hallway to use the bathroom. Every room you had to walk by there was a child fighting. Each child had a story. Lot of gowning and facial masks going into some ofnthe rooms. Some were in isolation. My heart broke for those families.Tubes coming out of every part of their body. Lots of machines and beeping noises going on. My heart broke for those families. We were one of the lucky ones that didn't have to experience our child on breathing machine. It was depressing! At one point there was a baby that had coded next to us and I was freaked out. Doctor's and nurses flying every which way. Not something I ever want to experience agian. 2nd day was ok. Breakfast was the only part he ate good at. Lunch and dinner were horrible. Finally had 3 of the 7 IV's taken out. The Neuro team came in talked to us. They have set goals for him to reach before we leave. Lot of work to do! Physical and occupational therapy will be in to assess him. They said it will most likely kick his butt. We were moved out of ICU onto the neuro therapy unit. It is good for him but he already misses nurse Kelly. He got pretty attached to her lol. She was amazing! I do have to day the care he has had here has been amazing. Since we have been moved out of ICU they got him out of bed and sat him in the chair for a while. He started spiking a fever so they decided to move him back into bed. His fever has been up and down. Trying to keep controlled with meds. He has become more agitated. We shall see what the next few days bring. Lot of work to do before he can be discharged! To make time pass child life has been in. They have been awesome! He has attempted to color and paint. We didn't get very far with that since he started to have pain and fell asleep. The hospital also has movies that we can watch. I can't tell you how many times we have watched Frozen, Lego movie, Despicable Me and Spider Man. I hear "Let It Go" when I do try to get some sleep. We shall see what the next few days hold.

24 hours and counting

24 hours and counting... this is what we have left until Brennan's next surgery. It has been an emotional day for me. Saying goodbye to Ty and Reagyn had gotten the best of me. I have never been away that long from my kids. I know they are getting well taken care of! Huge thank you to my mama and Uncle Mark for helping take care of them! This road trip was long... and boring! Brennan decided to keep us entertained on the way!
         

Some pics from our road trip. He fell asleep with the fry box in his mouth. Before he fell asleep he decided that he needed to play with Kool Aid sqeeze bottles.... never a dull moment! We are at the Ronald McDonald House now. Grandma and Grandpa Curry are here too. That made Brennan happy to see them. This place is a pretty amazing place! Ate dinner that was made by a group of girls that were volunteering from a culinary college conference. It was pretty good!!! Finally settling down to watch some Packer football!!! My nerves are starting to get the best of me. I am more emotional and nervous about this surgery. It is a more extensive and a lot longer than the first. I never thought a Chiari Malformation diagnosis would change our lives. Then being diagnosed  in August with Ehlers Danlos Syndrome has definitely changed our lives.  No child should ever have to suffer. No parent should have to watch their child suffer. So much has happened since his first surgery. I am praying this surgery will help slow down the progression of his Chiari. Tonight I go to bed emotional... still. Hugging Brennan tighter. I will keep everyone updated throughout the day and through out his hospital stay. Keep Brennan in your thoughts and prayers tomorrow morning. Tomorrow.. a new chapter starts.... 

I'd you would like to help

For those who have been following Brennan's Journey.. we also have a go fund me page set up to help with medical expenses. If you would like to help Brennan out the link is www.gofundme.com/brennensjourney
We thank those that have donated to help Brennan out!

Here we go again.....

Well.. here we are at it again. We started another chapter to our Chiari journey last Thursday when went and visited with Dr. Frim, the Chiari Specialist in Chicago. The ride up there was llllooonnngggg and kind of boring until we hit the city limits. I have to admit.... I kind of got excited when we saw downtown in the distance until we took the turn to go to University of Chicago Hospital. All I have to say about the area is WOAH!!!!!  Entering the building from the parking garage was kind of intimidating. It wasn't Cardinal Glennon. It was a real hospital.. Doctor's walking around in white coats... adults walking everywhere.. RN's in groups talking and walking with patients... I felt like I was seriously in an episode of Grey's Anatomy!!!! (My favorite show!) There were hardly any tiny humans running around!!! We went and grabbed a bite to eat and walked around just to see the place.. yes.. I did get lost!!!! Went over and scoped out Comer's Children's Hospital just to see what it was like. It is a huge facility but very, very nice!

We got to the appointment a little earlier and expected to have a long wait. It wasn't that bad. They called Brennan's name and my stomach which was in knots already was turning even more. I really wanted to throw up. We met Ashley, who was Dr. Frim's resident. She was going over questions and answers with us... going over both of his MRI's and the findings. She did ask a lot of questions regarding Brennan and what was going on with his health now. Showed us what they did on his MRI and what should have been done in the beginning. After all the questions and answers, she brought in Dr. Frim. I have to say, we were both impressed with him. I liked him a lot. He never once talked over us with medical terminology. He talked to Brennan on his level. There was things I learned with Chiari and things we knew about already. I can call him the 'Chiari God"... the man is very knowledgeable!

So after the conversation, physical examination and further review of the MRI's, we are now scheduled for another brain surgery Nov 2nd. It will be a very extensive surgery. Given the information, they will be cauterizing part of the brain out that is herniating out of his skull, cutting out more bone in the back of the head, shaving down more of his C1 vertebrae and opening up his dura sac all the way. Given that information, I wanted to throw up more. Just hearing the word "surgery" made my head spin more. Poor Brennan was freaking out... the poor kid has been through enough this year! He will be in the ICU for a couple of days then moved to another room until he is discharged from the hospital. I will be staying with him until he is discharged. Being a ways away from home.. I will not be looking forward to the ride home after surgery!

I have been asked.. "How do you feel about this?".. "I don't know how you do it?"... "Aren't you scared?"... To be honest.. I am feeling a mix of emotions.. I went into this doctor appointment with anxiety.. having a new doctor tell us his opinion.. the things that need to be done to slow down the progress of this. I am angry because it is robbing him of being a "normal" boy. I am scared for the unknown of the future of both his Chiari and Ehlers Danlos Syndrome. I am happy we found a doctor that "gets it". I am nervous for the surgery itself. I am stressed out from everything that has happened and is about to happen. I know there has been some tears lately and I am sure there will be more tears as the surgery date gets closer. No child should ever have to deal with this amount of pain and no parent should ever have to watch their child in that much pain and struggle with the little things. I look at B and ask "why.. why him".. one of the most lovable kids I have met. He doesn't know a stranger and is always smiling and pushing through pain.

We ask that you continue to keep Brennan in prayers and thoughts. This has definitely been a long road for him. Nov 2nd...a new chapter begins....

Grab life by the horns and ride......

 Wow.. time has flown by! Looks like the last time we updated the blog was back in June and baseball season was in full swing for us! Now we are in the full swing of football and school is back in session! This summer was filled with doctors appts for Brennan. Seemed like we were at Cardinal Glennon every week in July if not twice a week. A lot has happened since the last time I blogged. July was a big month for Brennan. We met with Rheumatologist, Dr. Moore to discuss why Brennan was in so much pain. We always suspected Ehlers Danlos Syndrome (EDS). What is Ehlers Danlos Syndrome? Ehlers Danlos Syndrome is an inherited connective tissue disorder with different presentations that have been classified into several primary types. EDS is caused by a defect in the structure, production, or processing of collagen or proteins that interact with collagen, such as mutations in the COL5A or COL3A genes.The collagen in connective tissue helps tissues resist deformation. Collagen is an important contributor to the physical strength of skin, joints, muscles, ligaments, blood vessels and visceral organs; abnormal collagen renders these structures more elastic. In some cases, the severity of the mutation can be life-threatening. EDS can have neuromuscular complications including ocular and ophthalmic complications. There is no cure for EDS, and treatment is supportive, including close monitoring of the digestive, excretory and particularly the cardiovascular systems. Occupational and physical therapy, bracing, and corrective surgery may help with the frequent injuries and pain that tend to develop in certain types of EDS, although extra caution and special practices are advised to prevent permanent damage. EDS is a chronic pain disease, with patients suffering daily. http://www.healthline.com/health/ehlers-danlos-syndrome#Overview1  Dr. Moore wanted further testing so we started the process. We had a lot of testing done, lots of bloodwork, echocardiogram and seeing an ophthalmologist.

Also during that time, we also had our follow up appointment for his 6 month check up from his Chiari surgery. He had his MRI done July 21 and also saw Dr. Elbabaa. We received the results that everything looked great. Surgery was working.. he had good flow around the brain! Yeah awesome news. I did voice concern on some things on his MRI but they pretty much told me not worry. I also voiced concern of his headaches coming back... speech stuttering again... pain throughout the body. Again.. he reassured us it was "residual" and that he will have the headaches and pains. It was not a flip of the switch.. it takes about a full year to recover from this surgery.

I ordered a copy of his MRI from July to have on hand and to see the images since they really didn't let us see them at the doctors office. When we loaded it we both were really shocked by what we saw. We started second guessing the images on the CD. We both felt like we needed to find a Chiari Specialist. Getting some advice from some friends of mine who also have Chiari and see a doctor in Chicago, we both felt like we needed a second opinion about Brennan. (Thank you Teresa and Donna)! I called Dr. Frim's office  in Chicago to see if he would give us a second opinion and they told us to send his MRI images and medical records. I was nervous sending all of this off...I now know we did the right thing.

August 28, 2015.. we had our follow-up visit with Dr. Moore to get the final results. The words... "yes.. it is definitely Ehlers Danlos Syndrome." Hearing those words were bittersweet. We knew it all along but just getting a doctor to hear us out. Since we narrowed it down out of the 6 different types, Dr. Moore stated Brennan has EDS type II.. Classical. Click here to read more about Classical EDS  http://www.ednf.org/classical-type Brennan has always complained pain throughout his body. His main pain is in his head, back, legs, knees and feet. Sometimes his arms but I truly think the kid always has pain. He does bruise very easy and his legs and arms are always full of bruises. He will start physical therapy to help strengthen his muscles... upper and lower extremities. Trying to figure out a way to get him to gain weight since he has lost 4lbs  We go back to Dr. Moore in March for a follow up to see how things are going.  

August 29, 2015.... Today I was not expecting a phone call from Dr. Frim's office. They have been reviewing his case since there was a lot. I received a phone call while I was at work regarding Brennan. Not the news we wanted to hear but after further review Dr. Frim has stated that Brennan's brain is slumping. WHAT????? To put into terms for someone to understand... his brain is sliding down more. His first surgery was not done correctly and that he needs to be fixed. More than likely his CSF fluid is being blocked again and that is why he is having more pain. The dura should have been opened up and that the herniation should be cauterized. SERIOUSLY... at that point I wanted to throw up and still do. So given the information we received.. we are making a trip to Chicago September 24th to meet with Dr. Frim at 1 pm. We are now facing another surgery to fix Brennan again.

The last 2 days have shown me that life is not fair but we have to keep going. I keep looking at Brennan and can't help but tear up and wonder why him.. why us.. why, why, why. Just not fair to any of us. Not fair that he has been through so much already and is about to go through more. This has been a long journey and it seems like this journey is gonna keep getting longer. To all the Chiarians that are on their journey... I feel for you all. To everyone that is following Brennan's journey, we thank you for taking the ride with us. I will definitely keep everyone updated!!!! 

B strong.. Brennan strong!

I can official say, I think this mama is about doctored out! These last few weeks I have been busy trying to figure out what the next step was after the genetic screening. After going rounds we are adding another doctor to the line up. We are scheduled to see a rheumatologist July 16. We are hoping to get more answers and maybe stronger meds to help with Brennan's pain.
                             

This was taken the other morning when he was attempting to eat breakfast. He was telling me how much his head and legs hurt. Its moments like this I really had a magic wand to take away the pain. The struggle is real. We have good days and bad days. I love it when we have good days with minimal pain. This pic just sums it up on the pain level that morning.

On a better note... we started selling t shirts for Brennan. Supporting him on on his journey with Chiari Malformation. 

The "B" is on the front of the shirt with the saying being on the back. I am pretty excited we already broke our goal! We will keep selling for the next couple of weeks. If anyone is interested in buying one, let me know! We thank Kellie Stormant for helping design and printing his shirts! !!

June 25, July 16 and July 21 are the next three major appointments coming up. These will hopefully give us more answers for Brennan. Possibly may even schedule another surgery depending on the outcome of the June 25th appointment. July 21 will be a huge one for us. This one is an MRI and a follow up to our neurosurgeon. They will be comparing his MRI from December to see how he is progressing from his surgery. I am hoping we also get good news with that too! Keeping my fingers crossed!

Brennan has had a few good weeks of speech now with Ms. Katelyn at the hosptial. She is definitely working her magic! Finally starting to hear some pronunciations of letters better. Brennan has been working hard on his "F" sounds. He is starting to work on his "D" sounds now. It's the little things that excite us!

Thanks to those that have been keeping Brennan in their prayers and thoughts. Still have a long road ahead of us! If you would to help Brennan out we also have a go fund me page set up. www.gofundme.com/brennensjourney. This will help with his medical bills and his therapy. We appreciate everyone that has helped Brennan on his journey!!!!