Home is where the heart is.....

It has been a crazy week so far! I really haven't had time blog about his 2nd surgery! We stayed busy at the hospital most of the time. Therapy... therapy.. therapy! Physical therapy had him a couple times a day and so did occupational therapy. We did get rest sometime in between but then the famous "toy room" was the happening place. They also had art therapy and music therapy. Brennan did paint alot. Sue, our art therapy teacher told him to paint how he felt. He painted a painting almost every morning. I think it helped him. I usually had 45 minutes to myself thanks to his Child Life buddy. I usually would take a walk around the hosptial or walk to other buildings outside to get fresh air. I would always get my coffee too!! :) We were on a pretty good schedule between meds, IV flushings, doctors coming in and therapy. In between we snuck in a movie to watch. The Friday Chris and Ty came up we were working Brennan hard to meet his requirements to go home on Sunday. We came back up from the toy room and the doctor was in and said even though Brennan had not met all the requirements, they felt that it was best he would be able to accomplish them at home. We heard those sweet words.. Brennan would be released one day early! I think I did do a happy dance! That Saturday morning I couldn't be happier to get out of the hosptial room and into my car to go home. We will miss seeing our nurses we had on a daily and nightly basis. Brennan got attached to a couple of them but there was one, Danielle, our night nurse he just loved. She was just amazing with him! His heart was broken when it was her last night to work. He made her a picture to hang in her locker. Before we left Chicago, I did get my Dunkin Donuts (thanks Nan for the gift card)! The ride home was long. Just trying to keep Brennan comfortable was the key. We made it home and got Brennan home and made him a comfy spot on the couch. Chris went and got his meds filled and let me tell you it is a chore keeping up with them!!! We have a chartnwe have been keeping to keep up with the times!;He has been getting up more and more off the couch but when he hurts, he is right back on the couch. We started our therapies back up at the hospital. Trying to jump back into things! He has restrictions when he does go back to school and at home. Monday we had his dressings taken off. I felt bad because the poor kid screamed from the tape being taken off his head.  He is missing some hair on his head but it will grow back. He has spiked a low grade fever and we have been watching that. The doctor has ordered antibiotics and wants us to put Neosporin  on his incisions because he does not like the redness on the bottom of his big incision. Also blood work is ordered. Thanks to everyone that has kept Brennan in thoughts and prayers. Also for the text messages and phone calls. We appreciate it very much!

2nd surgery and the things you learn......

Nov 2nd... the new chapter began. Surgery was long...way longer than the first. Dr. Frim came out and talked to us afterwards. During the procedure he explained that there was more work than he anticipated. He did look exhausted when he was talking to us. He also explained that there was some obsticles in his head with different veins he was trying to avoid. He did bleed alot and required a blood transfusion. I think my heart stopped for a few after he said that. It was a good thing we signed for him to get blood if he needed it. He walked us up to the ICU where Brennan was. Seeing him for the first time was a relief but at the same time my heart broke seeing him the way he was. Lot more tubes and wires coming out of him than the last time. He was more swollen in the face which was to be expected. We did have a rough first night. Having a catheter in is not fun and for a child it makes it 10 times worse. He was agitated and by 2 am he was in pain not only from his head but his cath. They decided to take it out. He was better after that and finally settled down about 3:45. In between him feeling like poo.. we had the helicopter pad by us and they kept coming in and out. Just being on the ICU floor freaked me out. None of the rooms had bathrooms in them so we had to walk down the hallway to use the bathroom. Every room you had to walk by there was a child fighting. Each child had a story. Lot of gowning and facial masks going into some ofnthe rooms. Some were in isolation. My heart broke for those families.Tubes coming out of every part of their body. Lots of machines and beeping noises going on. My heart broke for those families. We were one of the lucky ones that didn't have to experience our child on breathing machine. It was depressing! At one point there was a baby that had coded next to us and I was freaked out. Doctor's and nurses flying every which way. Not something I ever want to experience agian. 2nd day was ok. Breakfast was the only part he ate good at. Lunch and dinner were horrible. Finally had 3 of the 7 IV's taken out. The Neuro team came in talked to us. They have set goals for him to reach before we leave. Lot of work to do! Physical and occupational therapy will be in to assess him. They said it will most likely kick his butt. We were moved out of ICU onto the neuro therapy unit. It is good for him but he already misses nurse Kelly. He got pretty attached to her lol. She was amazing! I do have to day the care he has had here has been amazing. Since we have been moved out of ICU they got him out of bed and sat him in the chair for a while. He started spiking a fever so they decided to move him back into bed. His fever has been up and down. Trying to keep controlled with meds. He has become more agitated. We shall see what the next few days bring. Lot of work to do before he can be discharged! To make time pass child life has been in. They have been awesome! He has attempted to color and paint. We didn't get very far with that since he started to have pain and fell asleep. The hospital also has movies that we can watch. I can't tell you how many times we have watched Frozen, Lego movie, Despicable Me and Spider Man. I hear "Let It Go" when I do try to get some sleep. We shall see what the next few days hold.

24 hours and counting

24 hours and counting... this is what we have left until Brennan's next surgery. It has been an emotional day for me. Saying goodbye to Ty and Reagyn had gotten the best of me. I have never been away that long from my kids. I know they are getting well taken care of! Huge thank you to my mama and Uncle Mark for helping take care of them! This road trip was long... and boring! Brennan decided to keep us entertained on the way!
         

Some pics from our road trip. He fell asleep with the fry box in his mouth. Before he fell asleep he decided that he needed to play with Kool Aid sqeeze bottles.... never a dull moment! We are at the Ronald McDonald House now. Grandma and Grandpa Curry are here too. That made Brennan happy to see them. This place is a pretty amazing place! Ate dinner that was made by a group of girls that were volunteering from a culinary college conference. It was pretty good!!! Finally settling down to watch some Packer football!!! My nerves are starting to get the best of me. I am more emotional and nervous about this surgery. It is a more extensive and a lot longer than the first. I never thought a Chiari Malformation diagnosis would change our lives. Then being diagnosed  in August with Ehlers Danlos Syndrome has definitely changed our lives.  No child should ever have to suffer. No parent should have to watch their child suffer. So much has happened since his first surgery. I am praying this surgery will help slow down the progression of his Chiari. Tonight I go to bed emotional... still. Hugging Brennan tighter. I will keep everyone updated throughout the day and through out his hospital stay. Keep Brennan in your thoughts and prayers tomorrow morning. Tomorrow.. a new chapter starts....